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I have unrealistic expectations about life and love....

Can’t seem to find the perfect man? Why doesn’t she notice you? In need of post-break up counseling? Or are you just confused by the opposite sex? Have you now unrealistic expectations for men, ladies? Post rants and seemingly unanswered questions here. Married individuals feel free to advise the young and inexperienced. (Nothing explicit)

Postby princess_mari on Mon Apr 21, 2008 3:05 am

Unfortunately no such place exists, so we'll have to live our lives with high expectations and crucify every guy that comes in our way because he's not perfect enough.
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Postby BiteMe on Sat May 03, 2008 4:06 pm

We all have unrealistic expectations about love and life, mostly they come from Disney movies. :lol: But yeah, we slowly learn that life and love aren't always so fantastic...
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Postby Forever_Lovin_Cullen on Sat May 03, 2008 7:17 pm

BiteMe wrote:We all have unrealistic expectations about love and life, mostly they come from Disney movies. :lol: But yeah, we slowly learn that life and love aren't always so fantastic...


Learn indeed. And yes I do believe that I have both TTS and UES! LOL. Go figure.

I have ridiculously high expectations for guys, it's always been that way for, but it's been a million times worse since Edward entered my life. And though my expectations are ridiculous I always seem to find a guy that is promising at first (exactly what I am looking for) and then its like he can read my mind and as soon as he knows that he has got me he turns into his normal ugly self and then there I am stuck. It's awful. So of course after this has happened several times...I am now being extra cautious and simply patiently waiting.
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Postby princess_mari on Sun May 04, 2008 4:55 pm

Learn indeed. And yes I do believe that I have both TTS and UES! LOL. Go figure.

I have ridiculously high expectations for guys, it's always been that way for, but it's been a million times worse since Edward entered my life. And though my expectations are ridiculous I always seem to find a guy that is promising at first (exactly what I am looking for) and then its like he can read my mind and as soon as he knows that he has got me he turns into his normal ugly self and then there I am stuck. It's awful. So of course after this has happened several times...I am not being extra cautious and simply patiently waiting.[/quote]


Somehow every guy, sooner or later, knows you're really into them and they turn off their charm and show their unpleasant side. Most of us find ourselves stuck. It's true. They're mind readers and once they know their fish has taken the bait, they don't even try to reel it in, because they know we'll do it ourselves. I'm giving my boyfriend the benefit of the doubt still, to see if he's a bit different.
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Postby Forever_Lovin_Cullen on Sun May 04, 2008 5:56 pm

Well best of luck to you Princess_Mari! I hope that your boyfriend is your Edward or Jacob (which-ever you prefer). :)

As I've said, I am simply tired of searching and have decided to patiently await my Edward to come sweep me off my feet, take my breath away and dazzle me forever :wink:
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Postby Anonymous on Tue May 06, 2008 12:43 am

hi! OMG i thought i was completely alone in this, it's good to know i'm not the only one waitng for the charming prince :? i just can't help it i love romance. i'm in love with love :lol: I'm waiting for my Edward, Jacob, mr. Darcy and sooo many others. I`m also a picky girl and that makes it harder but what can i do?.
I think we all deserve to get at least a little of edward in a guy, i would do anytihng for a guy like that, we should open a school for guys and we should make them read all the books and watch all the movies that make us wish for the perfect guy, maybe they'll learn something :lol: yeah! right (that sounded really unrealistic and crazy ,sorry ) :roll: i still believe there are some few guys with a litlte of it deeepppp inside and we will find him, don't worry. in the meanwhile i'll keep on reading and watching romantic movies :lol: :lol:
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Postby ambivalent on Tue Sep 16, 2008 6:06 am

Stupid books. Stupid, stupid, stupid books. Ohh, why must you taunt me so with your perfect boys that don't exist. Real boys aren't beautiful, charming, intelligent, chivalrous, and pure of heart. Good heavens, no! It's nearly impossible to find a decent boy with even one of those characteristics, but all of them!? eeesh, keep dreaming.

I've been reading since a young age and been a hopeless romantic ever since. Damn it all. Had I known what would become of me, I might have kept away from certain books. They've ruined my love life.

Well, no. The real boys all just suck. They need a crash course in romance. It's not our fault, it's theirs. ;)
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Postby DiamondsAreForever on Sun Sep 21, 2008 9:08 pm

tragic fate we have chosen by reading these books...I'm trying to be more realistic but I haven't had a lot of success so far.. I want to find a guy at college which starts in October.. hopefully I'll find someone to 'cure' me =)

What romantic books are you talking about? I might like to read them :lol:
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Postby Emma_Vampy on Tue Oct 21, 2008 5:43 am

its so weird... ive been with my boyfriend for 14months, and i read twilight after we started dating.. but now somethimes i have this unreastic expectations of the boyfriend ideal based on edward....



whats funny is that my boyfriend has read and liked twilight... but im not sure he knows i compare him to edward sometimes... thats bad right?
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